Sunday, November 12, 2023

A dysfunctional life

Life is basically a question of balance. When there is balance, life goes well.

When balance is lacking, life goes badly…

OK, it is not that simple, but balance is a key factor to experience a life of plenitude.  And the reality supports balance is not that common.

Every day, we hear stories about people who hurt themselves or others. Every day, we hear about people who lost their aim in life. Every day, we hear about people who makes other people lose their goals.

There is no easy solution for reaching that level of balance, particularly if the person is way out of balance. but there are a few things to do to restore its balance:

  • Breath before acting, or at least reflect upon whatever you are going to do.
  • Talk with other people, hopefully wiser than you.
  • When you really feel disbalanced, don’t lose your heart, keep on moving, keep on trying.
  • If all fails, take a break by travelling or going for a retreat.
  • New habits are hard to form, but they are the best solution to keep balance.
  • Be happy! Enjoy happy news, the company of happy people and act with that happiness.

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