If you are a teacher
of some kind, you probably agree that teaching is complicated and at the same
time it is a wonderful call, a real art. It challenges and it gives a beautiful
return too. As a proof there are so many books, movies (To Sir, with Love[1]
anyone?) and TV series showing that noble profession in its best form.
However, when you are
not their teacher and yet you need to
teach them, things are different,
whether you are a neighbor of someone who loves cats too much or you are the boss
who wants to emphasize the value of a certain report to a rebellious employee.
In this case, wisdom
will be the source instead of knowledge and there are a few things you can work
to explain to other people when you are not their formal educator:
- Being the example. Particularly if you are in a long-term
relationship, example is the best tool and it teaches with a few words. Just
make sure your pupil is paying
attention!
- Reflect about what you want to talk. It is fundamental to take some time by
understanding what the lesson is, just like a good teacher who prepares their
class.
- Look for the best tactic to talk to someone. Yes, you have a clear message, but how to
impart it? There are several ways or methods, many different methodologies that
can help you to do that…
- A dialogue. …but by opening a room for
this person to enter and talk with you, you will see the lesson will be easier.
The best way to teach someone, with the exception of a technical subject, is to
let them to learn by themselves. That is…
- Be their coach! A wonderful alternative is to help them by
using coaching techniques. There is a simple one which is asking open questions, questions with no YES/NO answer.
A final point: your attitude is the key for teaching other
people. A problem with a few teachers is to think of students as ignorant
people; if you do that with people who are not students (and, by the way, with students too), your lesson won’t reach them.
Wise people would
never treat others as stupid, but they will see them as very intelligent capable
people who want to learn something different, something they know.
[1] To Sir with Love is a 1967 movie that shows the teaching
profession in its brillance. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/To_Sir,_with_Love
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