Sunday, September 30, 2018

Instead of blaming, responsibility is encouraged – Reason 60


Just visualise a room with a very beautiful flower-vase.  Now, imagine two little children playing, running around the table where the vase is and then, crash!  The beautiful vase is now part of history…  But, wait, their mother comes to the room and first thing she asks is: Who did this?  Now, can you see both children pointing at each other?

Blaming turns part of our general culture: you do it wrongly and you look for someone to get the blame for it…

However, a leader lives in a different way, by taking over responsibility as those who are responsible have the duty to correct their mistakes; instead, those who are guilty are excluded from our society.

As an example, Claudia Palacios[1], a Colombian journalist, quoted a very interesting statistics during a panel organised by Images and Voices of Hope (IVOH) in Bogota[2]: 70% of prisoners in the jails of Colombia continue on their same criminal path after leaving the institution, while only 30% are able to rehabilitate.

Mrs Palacios went on to compare these statistics with those of another organisation[3] that helps people from guerrilla and other illegal groups to come back to society, without the use of imprisonment.  They consistently achieve rehabilitation levels of 70% where one main element is to inculcate in those people a sense of responsibility.

Leaders encourage a responsible awareness, so, no matter how serious the error is, they will uphold the person’s dignity, by helping them to be responsible instead of punishable.


(Excerpt from the book 82 Reasons to be a Leader)





[1] Claudia Palacios works actively in journalism.  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Claudia_Palacios
[2] The panel was related to the present situation of the media in the country.   Besides Claudia Palacios, IVOH founder Judy Rodgers and publicist Ricardo Leyva were also present.   For more on Images and Voices of Hope: http://ivoh.org/
[3] Agencia Colombiana para la Reintegración works with people from a variety of illegal backgrounds.   They serve more than 50,000 people, helping them to rebuild their lives.   http://www.reintegracion.gov.co/en

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