For that, you count with some training, even though it was informal. That training probably gave you important tools you use in the day-to-day life: a mother was probably trained by her own mother on how to deal with a teenager who does not want to follow the rules; a CEO will have training on how to save his company, and a boss will sit down with one of her employees to discuss a new project, based on the knowledge she got at university.
But you have probably noticed as situations are getting more and more complex and complicated. Solving a situation is like disentangling a thread... the more you do, it looks even worse.
I am going to explore four basic skills that can help you in dealing different situations that come to you:
- Leadership skills. They will give you the energy and capacity to deal with strong and difficult situations, especially those we normally consider crisis. One focus I will talk about is in relation to give your team what it needs to overcome that crisis.
- Proactive problem solving. Creativity and initiative will help you to deal with situations that are preventing success coming to your organization or team.
- Flexibility. Situations can change at any time, so flexibility, as a skill, can give you an advantage when the change comes.
- Negotiation skills. Many situations come from the human front. Negotiating with others, persuading them from a genuine and win-win point of view can solve problems very easily.
You cannot prevent situations to come, but you can learn how to deal with them, and be successful by doing it.