Problems.
Criticism.
More problems.
The boss is not happy…
… neither your life partner.
The weather is awful and…
… let’s not even mention the road traffic!
Bad situations
come to our lives, which can turn into a thorn in our existence and it is not
easy to avoid it. But we can change the way to see these scenes.
First, let’s
take a look into that idea of bad situations as thorns. We can remind
ourselves that behind any thorn there is a beautiful rose waiting for us. It may
be a difficulty or a small tragedy, but there is a rose in the form of a
lesson, a change in the lifestyle or something even more valuable. Instead of
focusing on the thorns, look for the rose!
Second possibility
is to see circumstances as stones on the way: enough stones, your way will be well
paved. Yes, it is bad, but it will pass and you will certainly grow due to
this. Remember the paved road, instead of the stones.
And in
relation to that, a few of the stones may be gems: because your boss is not
happy with you, you find a better job or due to the intense traffic jam, you
decide to go and live at a better place. Check the bad things in your life,
because a few jewels are expecting to be collected.