A symbol in the 60's, spiritual, religious and humanitarian
people still believe in the intangible power of love. Well, even Harry Potter,
finally was able to believe in it (sort of...).
But, what does that mean? How much money does this power can
produce? How many friends can you conquer or customers can be satisfied?
Believe me, love can make all the difference and it affects
your life much more than you think about. For a better understanding, I propose
several dimensions for this concept, each one clarifying love and its power in
a different way. By knowing this, you can take advantage of this huge power.
The first dimension I identify is the individual one as love is what helps in building very strong
bridges between people. In this way, you can see its use in a team or a
negotiation. Love can be also the healing factor whenever a relationship goes
wrong.
But for that dimension to work, you have to comprehend a
second dimension, which is the expression
of love. I have a friend, Dr. Roger Cole, who wrote a book on the Mission of Love, by the way, an excellent
book!! He commented to me at some point when we travelled together in Ecuador where
I was helping as a translator, that love really can't be find in this world. What
you can find is mercy or compassion, and other qualities, virtues or values
that are in themselves expressions of love. So, when a co-worker is having
problems and you try to genuinely help or you get into a negotiation process
with a win-win mind set, you are using the power of your own love...
A third dimension, very important to understand, is in
relation to the attributes of love.
Let's be honest, love became a very cheap word and many times is misunderstood with
sex or lust. Love as a power works as a trigger for growth, solidarity and
relationship, which I've put as total different dimension due to its
importance. Yes, it is love that enables nature to live again after a very hard
winter. It is also love that makes you extend a hand to a strange and help them.
So, whenever your love enables others to grow or enables you to help others
that means love is power.
As I try to show here, love is not something too abstract or
a little hippie... The power of love
is real and it is inside you. Just use it in your life and see its wonderful
results.
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